Character: The Only Legacy that Matters
As the oldest Baby Boomers turn 65, their financial legacy is looking pretty grim. At an age where many used to retire from the paid workforce, it seems that Boomers (those born between 1946 and 1964) are struggling with debt and dim prospects for their futures. There’s concern about their monetary legacy. But I wonder: What about their legacy of character?
It’s easy to get “lost in life,” and focus on the day-to-day needs of ourselves and our families. But what will our loved ones inherit from us that will help sustain their faith, their souls? It’s these traits and values –– not money or lack of it –– that will prevail after we’re gone. ... “The wise inherit honor, but fools get only shame” (Proverbs 3:35).
So what’s your legacy? You might not think you have something of value to pass on, but you do. You have your experiences, your skills, your mistakes and insights, gained from dwelling on this earth. The things you take for granted may be pearls of wisdom to others.
If there are children or grandchildren, nieces or nephews in your life, you are probably familiar with their busy schedules. Between school and sports, hobbies and clubs (and yes, video games and the Internet), it might seem like there’s no time for just being with them. I’d like to suggest that you make the time, because there’s less of it than you might think. By the age of 12, according to some studies, almost all of a child’s character and beliefs have been developed. How much of you is there?
Perhaps now is a good time to consider your legacy. What will your descendants inherit? My prayer is that we can pass along the best of who we are for the benefit of all.
- Chaplain Gene Henderson
The preceding was excerpted from VitaJournal March 2011. Used by permission.
